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The Godmothers
My brother and I each had a Danish godmother, chosen by our Danish parents. Both women were forces to be reckoned with, as I came to realize.

My godmother, Kirsten Lynnerup was my mother's friend. They met in Denmark and planned to emigrate together. As it turned out, Kirsten had the money required before my mother did and she left. A few months later, when my mother arrived in Montreal, they met up again.

My brother's godmother, Christine Rasmussen, was my father's friend whom he met in Montreal. All four were part of a small Danish community made up of new immigrants. The community celebrated their common heritage with eating, gossiping and folk dancing in traditional Danish costume. My mother's costume was stored in an old trunk. Later, as a young girl, I wore the outfit to winter carnivals and costume parties, winning prizes.

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As with most immigrant girls, the young Danes began their lives in Canada as house maids. Before long, Kirsten had become a cook and Christine had opened a Danish Bakery on St. Catherine Street. My mother had been trained to nurse premature babies when they came home from the hospital. With this profession, she worked for the president of the Canadian Pacific Railway and with her charge, toured Canada from coast to coast in the private railway car

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My parents met in 1930. At the time, my father was engaged to a  woman who was back in Norway, visiting her family. As the community watched the progress of my father's interest in my mother, Augusta Jensen, they became alarmed and wrote to his fiancee, advising her to come back immediately. She was kind enough to break off the engagement, knowing my father would have difficulty doing the honourable thing. My mother relented then and accepted his attentions.  In 1933 they married. This prompted Christine to accept the hand of the man with whom she had lived for nine years.  

My godmother never married. I became the apple of her eye and I loved her dearly. My memories begin when I was three years old. I remember spending time with her at the great house where she worked. I would stand at the top of the basement stairs and greet the milkman as he came up, with his clanking milk crate, full of bottles. Sometimes I stayed overnight and  I  remember lying in my godmother's bed, squeezing myself against the wall as she slept.  I was used to having my own space.

She bought me clothes, a fur coat, a dressy ensemble which consisted of a blue woolen coat with a velvet collar, matching leggings, hat and purse. Later this outfit was passed around the neighbourhood and was Sunday best for seven little girls, one after the other. For my twelfth birthday, she gave me two change purses which I still use and a negligee which, although I never did wear it, I claimed as my own.  

                                    

Eventually Kirsten decided to emigrate to the States and left for Detroit where she became the cook for Henry Ford. An oft-repeated family story came from the incident when Mrs. Ford told Kirsten, Henry thinks the bills are too high. Kirsten was outraged. She had gone as far as to order the second best salmon to keep the bills down.

 The first time she came to visit us, my father met her at the airport. She arrived dressed in purple from head to toe, including a purple veil over her face.  He was so overwhelmed at the sight that he got the giggles and couldn't control himself. Her style of dressing always bordered on the outrageous. 

 

It was during that visit she gave my mother the recipe for Modified Mayonnaise, still a family favourite.

Later, Kirsten left the Fords and opened a boarding house for males only which her boarders called Kirsten's Home for Gentlemen. When I was 18, I went to visit her on the train and had a wonderful time, enjoying her cooking and her boarders.  

In her old age, Kirsten returned to Denmark and died among relatives. They were eager to inherit her by which they meant her money but perhaps there wasn't much left by then. She spent her last years in a lovely nursing home where she was happy.

 My brother's godmother, Christine, gave lavish dinner parties which, as a young girl, I found exciting. She never stopped loving my father and came to love my mother too.  She was generous and  kind and bestowed on my parents material gifts of lasting value. Among them were  porcelain and silver. Her son was a sailor and we were given a mahogany table from a country in Africa which seemed to us children like the ultimate in exotica. . 

Christine also contributed recipes to the family annals, chief among them, one  for Foundation Dough for Danish Christmas Cookies and the other,  Danish Layer Cake.

In the late 1940s, her husband died and Christine went to the Bahamas, where she worked as a cook for an prominent family. On at least one occasion,  she cooked for the Edward, the Prince of Wales and the Duchess of Windsor.  

When she retired, Christine also returned to Denmark where she remarried. She lived in a quaint small town called Ebeltoft, in a house which had once been a rectory. I visited her in my early twenties. She insisted on polishing my shoes each evening and treated me as an honoured guest. Christine lived well into her nineties and kept in touch with my family until the end.

Two godmothers. So many memories. My life was enriched by by Kirsten and Christine and I thank them. 
                                           



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May 30, 2007 10:03:04 AM
These are memories to cherish. And I love the pictures!
Mar 22, 2007 6:49:47 AM
It was a pleasure to read about your Godmothers. Welcome to Drumtable!

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